International music star, Femi Anikulapo-Kuti
has attributed his success to his tutelage under his father, the late
Fela Anikulapo-Kuti; first as a trainee, and later as a member of his
band. He told The Nation that his father was his first critic,
adding that when he played his first composition to his father, he asked
how people could dance to it.
The
singer reminisced, “Fela asked, ‘So how do you want people to dance to
this?’ I only thought of the melody when I composed the song, but on
speaking to him, I realised that it was important for Africans to be
able to dance to the song.”
Though
not a graduate of music, Femi was a protégée of his father, who learned
his craft at the foot of a master craftsman, and acknowledged the fact
that hard work was a major secret he acquired from his mentor father.
Femi
started receiving music lessons from his father as a teenager, as
residents of the Off Toyin street axis of Ikeja in the early 80s can
attest.
Speaking
about his marriage to his ex-wife, Funke Kuti, he noted that he does
not believe in the marriage institution. As he puts it, “I never
believed in marriage. I loved my wife, and got carried away. I am happy
about the experience. We got married for a number of reasons; she left
home, and many people said she had made the greatest mistake of her
life; she got pregnant; and for us to have a certain status for our
child; documentation and so on. There were so many reasons to get
married.”
Speaking
further, he asserted that his father advised him not to get married but
he went against his father’s wishe. He went on to say that getting
married affected the relationship, saying, “Now we are great friends,
but probably if we had not gotten married, we probably would have still
been together.”
He said
further: “When you get married, if it breaks up, you get into a very
bitter street, that makes it is very difficult for people to make up
afterwards. Everything goes bitter around you, and hatred comes in. And
when hatred comes, you will find that couples can no longer tolerate
each other.
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